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Steps
- Remember that it is impossible to go through life without hurting another person's feelings just as it is impossible to go through life without being hurt by another person.
- Acknowledge what you did to hurt this other person, but do not dwell on the problem for too long. You have to let it go.
- Learn from the experience. Take positive steps about your behavior and try to understand other peoples points of view.
- Forgive yourself.
- Recognize that it is not their fault that you hurt them. Do not take your pain out on them.
TIPS
- Try to control your own emotions without suppressing yourself.
- An apology will be worth nothing to another person if it means nothing to you so don't apologize in an offhand manner.
- If you are uncomfortable approaching the person you hurt simply give it time. The awkwardness will fade eventually.
WARNING
- If you are constantly talking about this one person, other people will get very annoyed, so don't let this become the only thing that you have.
- If someone does not want to hear an apology, do not force it. Give them time they will come around eventually.
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